A Guide to Latex

It’s not just what you do with latex, but also how you do it.

When you practice BDSM and similar kinks, accessories, and nuances matter. A lot. Latex is one of the tools that one can use to create a special mood, add extra hotness to their experience, and also, frankly, try something new and totally different from their daily lives. 

What is Latex?

When it comes to kinks and sex, latex is a material that is highly functional and very loved by certain communities. You’ve probably seen latex clothing for BDSM, but it can also be any accessory for the bedroom made out of it, such as:

• Hoods 
• Masks
• Gloves
• Dildos
• Sex toys 
• Vacuum beds 
• Lingerie 
• Bedding 

As you see, the opportunities are endless! Latex is a versatile material, despite it being ultimately limiting and restricting if you put it on as clothing. 

If you’re using latex as a kink, you can wear, touch, or interact with different objects to intensify pleasure and arousal. 

Why Do People Enjoy Latex in Sex and Kinks?

Latex is a fun material to use with your intimate partners. It’s shiny and smooth, it creates extra compression that restricts you on one side but also frees you up and helps you transform into someone else. 

It’s a perfect companion for dominance and submission kinks, but also for any play where you want to add a bit of spectacle to the show.

Here is a brief overview of all the benefits that latex adds to sex and why so many people enjoy it.

1. The full-body enclosure that it creates if you wear an entire outfit makes you feel simultaneously safer tucked away and also free. You don’t worry about the nuances of your body because it’s hidden under the latex armour. 
2. The aesthetics of it. Latex is a funky material. It’s definitely visually striking, so you will not be blending in. It almost creates an alien, otherworldly feel. 
3. Power dynamics. Can you really have no power while wearing a latex costume? We doubt that! Even if you’re not that confident yourself, dressing like that will instantly put you in a dominating position. It’s a perfect tool for transforming into someone different from the everyday version of you. 
4. Latex is sticky to the skin. Wearing it creates a unique sensation that you don’t get with normal clothes. If your partner is touching you through it, their touches will not be familiar which is exciting. It’s like you’re engaged with a complete stranger, except it’s still your lover, so you feel safe and confident. 
5. Using latex accessories, even if you’re having traditional vanilla sex, adds extra edge and steam to the whole process without you having to do something you’re not fully ready to try yet, such as a full-on BDSM practice. 

Safety and Consent Tips with Latex 

Latex is not for the weak! If you’re going to engage with latex costumes or accessories, there are a few things you need to bear in mind safety-wise and consent-wise. 

In terms of consent:

• Always ask someone if they’re okay with latex before making it a part of your sex routine. It’s not going to be a big deal for some, while others will be completely against it. And that’s okay! We all have our own preferences which should be respected. 
• Agree on what’s going to work and what’s not latex-wise. Basically, come up with a set of boundaries that will ensure you guys feel comfortable while enjoying some kinky latex. 
• Stopping should be easy. If anyone feels uncomfortable at any point of the latex-involving intimacy, they need to be completely free to stop. You can agree on a safe word if you like, or simply discuss that there’s no pressure to go on if you’re not enjoying it. 

Most likely, everything will go well, and you’ll have a blast with latex. Still, it’s important to talk these things through. Consent and boundaries will make everyone feel more at ease, and that’s what we want, right?

In terms of safety:

• Invest in quality latex. Cheaper alternatives are usually cheaper for a reason. It’s okay if they don’t fit as well, but they can also contain poor-quality materials that will cause discomfort or irritation. 
• Make sure all participants are allergy-free. Grab a small piece of latex and patch it on the skin of everyone who’ll be joining in on the fun. Usually the allergy will show up in a few minutes’ time, so you’ll quickly see if it’s happening for you or not.  
• Lube is not just for your genitals. Latex is sort of tight on the skin, and it can be problematic to put on elaborate costumes. You can get lube, talcum powder, or coconut oil to help whoever will be dressing up make it a more pleasant experience. 
• Use with care. Latex may seem like a rough material that can handle anything, but it really is rather gentle. It tears easily, so stay clear of sharp objects and use lube to slide right into it. 
• Hygiene is king. Latex needs to be washed, dried, and stored properly. Otherwise, it can get deformed or moldy, or fade in the sunlight. Make sure not to just wash and care for clothing pieces, but all latex toys and accessories you’re using. 

Whenever someone is wearing latex pieces, pay attention to how they’re feeling. If you notice the person’s breathing is weird or they turn red or pale, ask them if they’re doing okay. Also, ensure there’s enough fresh air in the room, and there is always water at hand to ensure proper hydration, and a pair of scissors for an emergency exit from the costume if someone is fainting or experiences other forms of discomfort.

Getting Started with Latex 

You want to live the latex, but don’t know the latex ways? We have you covered!

1. Don’t wait for the right partner to join you. You can have fun on your own! And you won’t be totally alone, you’ll have latex!
2. Start with small accessories and pieces. Don’t try to squeeze into a full-on Catwoman costume on day one. Try little bits and bobs, such as gloves, collars, blindfolds, or a whip. 
3. Research all latex things that are available to you in your area and make a list of things you’d be curious to try. 
4. Introduce latex to your sex life if you have a partner. Don’t overwhelm them, but bring something small and incorporate it into play (after you get their OK, of course).
5. Find a partner if you don’t have one. You can start by signing up on the Flure app or going to themed community forums and offline events. 

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