A Guide to Zentai
Zentai is a mix of kink and fetish that will satisfy all those cravings for you. In today’s beginner’s guide to Zentai, we’re going to cover all the basics.
What is Zentai?
Zentai is a rather niche, lesser-known of all kinks within the BDSM community that involves full-body suits. And we mean full body, from head and face down to toes.
The main appeal of Zentai is the anonymity it gives the participants. Nobody can see your face, nobody needs to know who you are. You’re free to pretend, to let go, to cut loose, and to explore.
Zentai Tools
The core elements of Zentai are, of course, the suites. Fashion is a crucial element of the kink, and if you’re going to give it a try, here is a quick list of tools that you’ll need for a truly immersive experience.
- Full-body suits. They are usually available entirely in spandex or latex, or as a mix of materials for different sensations throughout your body. The most creative members of the community make their own costumes and come up with creative patterns, material combinations, and other little tricks. Don’t worry about it for now though.
- Sensory tools. Anything that can restrict your vision and hearing is welcome. Try getting blindfolds if your suit is not hardcore and allows you to see something. Extra hoods will make you hear and see less, creating a more thrilling environment where sensory deprivation drives your arousal through the roof.
- Zippers. Zippers are your best friends when you’re wearing a full-body costume. They provide access to exciting areas without having to undress completely.
- Gloves and foot covers. If your suit is missing gloves and foot covers, you need to get them asap! It’s not Zentai if parts of your body are showing. Don’t worry if your suit doesn’t have them though. It’s actually good to have a bit more flexibility and put them on separately.
- Breathable fabrics for the facial area. If you’re still testing the kink and want to start with a simpler setup, consider getting yourself either a breathable full-body costume or a breathable but full-coverage head and neck part of it. You can wear it around the house or during play and feel a bit more comfortable while you’re getting used to it.
Overall, if you have a full-body suit, you’re all set. If you’re a beginner, that is more than enough. However, if you find yourself enjoying Zentai a lot, you might invest in different customization options to add color, pattern, or texture. You can also play with different separate elements of the suit, and even get multiple suits.
After all, fashion is a key factor in Zentai, so if you feel the urge to splurge and get yourself another fancy suit to surprise your partner, your online audience, or even just yourself, – go for it!
Why Do People Enjoy Zentai?
Zentai sits in an interesting place between fetishes and kinks. It gives people not only sexual and sensual pleasure but also a great and quite unique way of self-expression.
The Looks
Some tend to disregard fashion and the way we look as something superficial, but it actually is one of the best ways to show the world what we’re all about. Self-expression is vital to one’s confidence and self-esteem. It applies both to daily life and the moments of intimacy. Those who are fond of Zentai and spend hours enjoying themselves fully covered with other like-minded people find it thrilling, freeing, and marvelous.
The Sensations
The sensations you have from someone touching you in a full-body suit are hard to describe. It’s one of those “so close, yet so far away” moments where you’re ready to cry for a human touch, but you only get to feel it through the fabric. It is deeply erotic and sensual.
The Anonymity
A common roadblock for those interested in kinks and fetishes is the fear of being recognized. Even if you go to private events and try to conceal who you are, there is a fair chance of your face being spotted and identified. It’s very different from Zentai where your face is literally fully covered. There’s nothing to fear, or at least it’s much harder for someone to take photos or record a video of you and then prove to anyone that this is really you pictured there.
The Identity Play
As a result of full anonymity, one can really play with their identity. You can pretend to be someone completely different, someone who has nothing in common with the real you. Or you can make smaller changes and only adjust your personality a little bit.
It’s a super liberating feeling to be hidden from the world yet be out there for everyone to see you. Zentai helps many deal with their anxieties and insecurities. It’s almost a mental health exercise where you try changing the way you act while being safe from judgment, and living through the fantasies and the desired behavior that you struggle to bring to life.
The Freedom
All in all, Zentai gives one the freedom from societal norms. You don’t have to conform to what others expect you to do. Also, you remove all the physical characteristics that we usually use to identify each other, such as skin color, beauty, age, facial features, and hair.
How to Explore Zentai Ethically: Safety and Consent Tips
Before you dive deep into the exciting world of Zentai, here are a few tips and recommendations to make sure you’re doing it ethically and consensually, and only ever have the best experience with the kink.
- Get everyone’s consent and give it yourself too. Talking through everyone’s boundaries, limits, and expectations is so important. Even if you’re attempting Zentai with someone you have known for a long time, it’s better not to assume what their comfort levels are.
- Comfort over looks. Naturally, you want to look your best in your full-body suit. However, you shouldn’t compromise your comfort. It’s really hard to be enjoying yourself when you can barely move, everything is itching, and stitches are placed annoyingly.
- Watch out for your body. Depending on the suit’s material, your reactions to different actions and temperatures can change. Make sure you don’t do any damage because you can’t fully feel the impact.
- If someone isn’t enjoying it, you’re not doing it. Even when you pre-agree to something, a person may have a change of heart, start feeling weird, and not enjoy it like they thought they would. If that happens, pause your fun, and don’t continue until everyone gives you a green light.
- Take care of the suit and ensure good hygiene. Clean the suit after each use and store it according to the recommendations to prevent damage. Take a shower before and after Zentai sessions to make sure you don’t get any irritations, body pimples, or anything of that sort.
FAQ
Is Zentai a fetish or a kink?
Zentai sits nicely somewhere between a kink and a fetish. It is centered around full-body suits, but it’s the person under the suit that matters the most.
Where can I find zentai enthusiasts?
If you’re looking for Zentai buddies, the Flure app is a great place to start. The platform attracts open-minded and sex-positive users who are looking for different and exciting experiences. You can also try themed groups and forums.
Is zentai normal?
Zentai is absolutely normal. You’re simply enjoying yourself and others while wearing killer suits. Unlike traditional intimacy, Zentai offers the thrill of hidden identity, unique sensory experiences, and a chance to be someone else for a while. Nothing wrong with that!
